Father Figures
Father’s Day came a little early this year here at DRUMMER
It’s pretty common for most of us to have troubled histories with our dads. But there’s something about the Daddy/boy connection that gay men can’t get enough of. The longing for a childhood they never had. Recreating one they did. The attraction of an age dynamic. Dirty thoughts of crossing that line. Or you simply like being controlled. Or in control. What you’ll find in this issue runs the gamut. Boys that are older. Young daddies. Daddies who are boys who are daddies. Family structures created entirely out of D/s in a variety of configurations. We’ve also got some extra Hard Reads, a different take on the question of ‘who’s a daddy’ and some good old-ffashioned dad/son bonding time thrown in for good measure.
Now be a good boy and come have a seat on daddy’s lap.
In this issue
DADDY’S LAP: Who’s Your Daddy? Ask A boy Who Knows.
DADDY... So I wanted to come at this from a different perspective. We've seen things where people talk about being a Daddy or a dom from their own POV –– but what about through the eyes of a boy or a sub? BOY... Yeah I’m feeling you. DADDY... Right off the bat for...
Hard Reads: Stolen Goods
Stolen Goods I’ve got a thing for hot young studs, and they’ve got a thing for me! I don’t waste my time on apps or bars—I like to find my boys in their natural environment and then make them mine. Saturday’s always laundry day for hotties, and I’m in need of a new...
Dad+Me
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One Man Leads, One Man Follows
What’s The Ideal Form A Relationship Between Two Men Can Take? Bulldog has an answer to that question. I. Everybody calls him “Bulldog.” People were calling him Bulldog before he called himself Bulldog. He is a big, hairy caveman who rides up shirtless on his Honda...
FFather Knows Best
Every young guy has a secret spot. A place that nobody knows about, where they can do, well, anything they want. A spot that provides adventure and, at the same time, allows a guy to let loose, undisturbed. The hard part is keeping it a secret, especially when it is...
Hard Reads: Glory Days
Every young guy has a secret spot. A place that nobody knows about, where they can do, well, anything they want. A spot that provides adventure and, at the same time, allows a guy to let loose, undisturbed. The hard part is keeping it a secret, especially when it is...
Family Affairs – The Ways and Means of Daddies and Boys
I call him Papa. For the last twenty-two years, that’s how I almost always refer to my husband. It actually started at Mid-Atlantic Leather in 2002. We were in a scene and his whip was stinging my back, and in my agonies, I called out, “Oh Papa!” He paused for a...
Flip the Switch
Young enough to be a boy, old enough to be your daddy. Which is which?[dsm_masonry_gallery...
BOY IN THE CORNER: From Men To Boys – Navigating Submission Later In Life
I had been a part of the leather scene from almost as soon as I came out and began experimenting with kink sex starting in my early 20s. Sex was more complicated then – HIV didn’t have effective treatments yet. There was a lot of fear around it which doesn’t...
Lancelot Father Figures
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